Success comes to those who really
work out for that. Success is not a goal or destination; rather it is a process
for a product. Here question comes, “whether we do earnestly aim to get-set-go
or we are only madly biased for it having been badly suffered with the
so-called identity crisis?” Too much sadistically getting serious for aiming at
the ambitions of life or over ambitiousness in nature naturally invites
undesired anxiety of mind which is a common life-style problem.
Valour or vigour of our mental state
get provoked by its vulnerability and a human-brain symptomatically starts
retiring ambition. Ambition should not bring anxiety. Ambition should not be
abstract or ambiguous; rather it should be supported by practical affordability
and natural availability. Logically our mind may be aiming for a sort or fort.
Sometimes a creative mind, a talented person gets hypothetical utopian or get
violent to get the success that he or she has desired for. In this case there
is a chance compromising with his her moral or ethical integrity, character,
culture, family, society, etc. So, expectations of mind or dreams should be
well-designed with all required abilities or assistance for the dame.
A world famous
philosopher-Johnson divides ‘ambition’ into two categories: intrinsic and
extrinsic. The intrinsic people are highly value-oriented, they believe in
themselves, plan according to their supporting credentials. Whereas the
extrinsic category of people, those who are being admired, recognised by
others, they are more likely to deal with fame, wealth and power. The intrinsic
people have more critical thinking skills, self-analysis while setting their
goals; but the extrinsic people are motivated by emotions, provocations of the
time and situation. In this way ambitious id good for a human being by nature
but to be overambitious is highly sensitive, risky, and troublesome.
The 21st century
individual or society (in the form of family, community, political party,
social organizations, institutions, or country are emotionally anxious for
passionately getting their targeted needful, objective, victory or success by
defeating their counterpart, violating the set disciplines, ideologies and not
respecting the dignity of others. In this case, the person or people get undesirably
ambitious. They are having sick mind of getting provoked by jealousy,
intolerance, undue competition, etc. Thus, the negative traits of mind are
often suffered from anxiety. They desire more, they get lost by the
frustration, stress or insanity resulting from failure or not getting the goal
by hook or by crook.
Many people
without knowing the reality of fact, without proper guidance, with a virtuous
or honest objectivity, not following the practical art of living may hinder
with many life style problems. Unidentifiably they love their passion without a
mighty mission. They get self-oriented without practising the mutual
respectfulness, broad outlook, optimistic planning, etc, they are diagnosed as
psychologically sick and they barely need psychiatric counselling. They often
lose their patience for losing their track or get frustrated for something or
other. They have to rightly go by their type of goal and should be justly
oriented by spiritualistic pragmatism with a proper understanding of pragmatic
ambition of life.
By PKDM
